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Navigate Ageism With AI

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Eng Manager

You hire. Watch for age bias in your process. 'Culture fit' sometimes means 'young.' Call it out. James-level talent is rare.

Tech Lead

Your older teammates might feel invisible. Include them. Ask for their take. 'What would you have done 20 years ago?' — that question is valuable.

Cto

Advisory and fractional roles often value experience over 'energy.' Position James (or yourself) there. Some companies get it. Find them.

Navigate Ageism With AI

TL;DR

  • Ageism in tech is real. "AI-native" and "digital native" can be code for "young." It's unfair. It's also a hiring reality. Navigate it.
  • Your move: position for roles that value experience. Advisory, fractional, and "we need someone who's seen it before" opportunities. They exist.
  • James doesn't need to look 25. He needs to be the person companies call when they need judgment. That's a different market.

Let's be honest. Some companies want "young and hungry." Some hiring managers assume "older = slower, less adaptable." AI hype has made "AI-native" a buzzword that can exclude. It's dumb. It's also something to work around.

Where Ageism Shows Up

  • Job postings: "Digital native," "fast-paced," "startup energy." Sometimes innocent. Sometimes a signal.
  • Interviews: "How do you stay current?" — fine question. Sometimes it's a proxy for "are you old?"
  • Culture fit: "We're a young team." Translation sometimes: "We prefer people who look like us."

You can't fix bias in one conversation. You can choose where you play.

Where Experience Is Valued

  • Advisory and consulting: CTOs and VPs pay for "I've seen this before." They want gray hair. Lean in.
  • Fractional roles: Interim CTO, part-time architect. Companies in transition want experience. They're not looking for "energy." They're looking for "don't blow it up."
  • Enterprise and regulated industries: Healthcare, finance, government. They value institutional memory. They value "we've done this in a compliant way." That's you.

Not every company is ageist. Find the ones that value judgment. They're out there.

Your Narrative

"I've seen this cycle before" is an asset. "I've led through [cloud, mobile, whatever] and here's what I learned" — that's credibility. Frame it. Use it. Don't apologize for the gray hair. Turn it into the selling point.

Quick Check

Some companies want 'young and hungry.' 'AI-native' can exclude. James is 35 years in. What's the move?

Job posting says 'digital native,' 'fast-paced,' 'startup energy.' James doesn't bother. He feels invisible. 'They want young.'

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Do This Next

  1. Audit your positioning. Does your LinkedIn, bio, or pitch emphasize experience as value? "35 years" and "I've seen X" — lead with that.
  2. Target the right buyers. Advisory, fractional, enterprise. Skip the "we want AI-native 25-year-olds" postings. Save your energy for places that get it.