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Cross-Team Communication

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Solutions Arch

You live in the space between teams. Clear communication IS the job.

Eng Manager

Your team's output depends on alignment with product, design, and other eng teams. You orchestrate that.

Cross-Team Communication

TL;DR

  • Projects fail more often from misalignment than from bad code. Communication is the fix.
  • AI can draft emails and summarize meetings. It can't read the room, sense tension, or build trust.
  • The engineers who get tapped for leadership are the ones who make sure everyone's on the same page.

You can write perfect code and still have the project fail because design shipped the wrong mockups, product changed scope, and the other team didn't know. The people who prevent that — who align, clarify, and follow up — are invaluable. AI doesn't do alignment.

Why This Matters More Now

With AI, more of the "coding" can be automated. What can't be automated is:

  • "What does the other team actually need?"
  • "Why are we blocked? Who can unblock us?"
  • "Did product and eng agree on what 'done' means?"

That's communication. Cross-team, cross-function, cross-timezone.

Quick Check

Projects fail more often from misalignment than bad code. What can AI help with — and what can't it do?

What Good Looks Like

  • Proactive updates — Don't wait to be asked. "Heads up: we're blocked on X. Here's what we need."
  • Written alignment — After a meeting, send "here's what I heard. Correct me if wrong." Reduces "I thought we said..." later.
  • Escalation with context — When you escalate, include: what we need, what we've tried, who can help.
  • Clarity over cleverness — "We'll have it done by Friday" beats "we're optimizing the critical path."

What AI Can't Do

  • Read the room — Is the PM frustrated? Is the designer checked out? AI wasn't there.
  • Build trust — Trust comes from consistency, follow-through, and "they actually listened." AI doesn't have a reputation.
  • Navigate politics — "We need to loop in VP X" or "don't mention Y to team Z" — that's human judgment.
  • Improvise — A meeting goes off script. Someone asks an unexpected question. You adapt. AI runs on prompts.

How to Get Better

  1. Over-communicate on critical path — When something blocks others, tell them early. Over tell. Under tell = surprises = frustration.
  2. Document decisions — After alignment, write it down. Share. "Decision: X. Rationale: Y. Owners: Z."
  3. Ask for clarity — "Can you confirm we're building X, not Y?" Costs 30 seconds. Saves weeks of rework.
  4. Volunteer for the messy meetings — The ones where no one knows who owns what. That's where this skill builds.

Do This Next

  1. Send one proactive update this week — to a stakeholder who's waiting on you. Include: status, next step, any blockers.
  2. After your next cross-team meeting, write a 3-line summary. Share it. "Here's what I understood. Correct me if wrong."